Men's Unrealistic and Not Okay Expectations of Women

Men's Unrealistic and Not Okay Expectations of Women

As a society, we care a lot about women's appearance and their behaviors. We expect them to do certain things to be appealing to men. And that's really messed up. 

Hetero perspective up in here.

1) No Body Hair

Really, this is more regarding pubic hair, leg hair, armpit hair and facial hair. When men say they prefer to have women not have hair on the vajayjay, I'm like "Do you like feeling like you're having sex with a 10 year old girl?" Like that's not okay. Pubic hair is normal. It protects the vadge from bacteria. And waxing feels like your getting murdered in your downstairs area. As far as leg hair goes, why does society tell women that leg hair isn't feminine? It's a pain to shave my legs often and I hate it. Society is messed up. Ugh.

2) We're Good Cooks

(Why is there a baby in a pot? Don't cook babies, please. That's messed up.)

For some odd reason, a lot of men think that women should be good cooks. I'm not a bad cook, but I'm not a great cook. I wasn't raised to focus on my culinary skills. Yeah, my parents were cool and taught me how to fend for myself and cook basic meals, but they were more focused on raising a good human being. So don't expect women to 1) be good cooks, 2) like to cook, 3) and be the chef in your relationship.

3) We Suck Your Dick

(Sorry family)

We're not here to have sex with you. 

If we want to have sex with you, awesome. Love it. Do it. Consensually. But we don't owe you sex and if we don't want to have sex with you, then you have to be cool with that. (Ladies, you too.) 

And during sex, we don't have to suck your dick unless we want to.

4) Have a Certain Body Type

All about that bass? Or about that treble? As a woman, I'm expected to have curves in some places but not others. Supposed to have great legs, great butt, and perfect breasts. That's not a thing. In the real world, you're not gonna get a woman (let alone, a person) who fits your idea of a perfect looking person. So love what you have. See each person for who they are, a beautiful human being.